What Are Friends Are For

Don't you know that the word "friends" has a very complicated meaning? I mean not literally.. Yet,people used that word easily and regularly..When someone ask you, "whose that with you? Easy answer, "its just a friend"..Easy excuse, still "I'm just with a friend..."

There are different types of friendship, such as: friend as co-workers,neighbors,fitness buddy,clientele,schoolmate,mere acquaintance, ect.. and nowadays we have what we called an on line friends as well..
Wherever or whoever it is, life is just wonderful if you are surrounded by those, granted if its a real one..

Friendship to me is like having a flower in the garden, which always need cultivating, must fertilize it, water it, in order to see them grow beautifully..
Its a two soul mate whose mind blend each other, yields natural understanding, forgiving and never back bite. Its both show willingness to lend a helping hand amid the worst and chaos moment of their life..Its a lifelong sharing of laughter and tear experiences, offer golden advices, listen, no demands, not suffocating and never taking advantages.. Its not judge mental, respect each other's ideas and opinion. Its full of honesty,loyalty and trust.

Those words are so powerful, so perfect, that even myself could hardly admit to my own conscience. Am i able to surpassed that one in a million qualities? Hmmmm truth is I don't know.Its just too hard to boast if I am that perfect. I am a person who loves to party and socialized.I'm a bit hard sometimes but so far not choosy. I don't see people according to the thickness of their wallet but how big and thick their heart is.

Every now and then our life changed,such as getting married, change job, went abroad or anything that made us seemed so preoccupied with something that we loose contact with some of our friends. Now,we hanged out new peer group, usually who is nearer and accesible to us.Closer to whom we are comfortable with, the same interest and mostly the same job or area of specialization..But no matter how many you have newly found pals, it actually doesn't mean by, you totally forgotten the old one..Nope!
Nevertheless,without wearing any mask we are conscious of, we have a special face for each of them and since there is nothing so well worth having as friends, never lose a chance to make them.

My Fitness Pals

Fitness pals are usually my own group fitness students and co instructors from which i delevelop a special connection with them. I felt the loyalty and real care from them too. Some of them not here in the list and yet they are still a special part of me, that they only knew...



Phillis on my left, my ever loyal Yoga student..





From left to right is Dolly my ex co instructor, Yuli from Indonesia, Susan and Ann my Filipino Aerobic students..The green jokes group..


Amani in my left and Candy in orange is my fellow Yoga Trainee under Danurasana..Very friendly, quite, reserve type..We are both in bloggers and friendster..



Ricky in long sleeve black, Filipino now in Bharain. Ex co instructor, very kind person fun to be with. We keep in touch in friendster..



Jerry school teacher, in white, is been with me for 4years, now she live in Austrilia with her family..Very nice to chat with..



Dk. Maryani in my right, my very regular aerobic student. We chat a lot too..


Maeve in gray and Kathy in red is my two Europian Yoga Student.. They both teacher in Brunie school. They have been with me for a year..They become friend in the long run and so comfortable with each other..


Standing behind is Ate Jo Filipina,my first closest client in Brunei, not active anymore but still keep in touch. Behind me is Aisha first co instructor in Brunei, we separate ways too yet still friends..


Dk. Norshia in Red center. She's with me for ages..She's like my auntie in Brunei..But i still have keep my self behave with her hehe..



From my right,standing is Hjh Siti Zainidah and Siti Zafira the mother and daughter, they are my other malay Filipina aerobic clients. Sitting is Alida, Rahema and Sharina, malays. They are fun easy to talk to..


Ate Becca in pink. She's one of my closest follower, who just loves to invite me for food and a bit of chat..



My oldest fitness partners in Philippines, i lost contact with some of them now. Really enjoy with them. Miss it!

A friendship can weather most things and
thrive in thin soil; but it needs a little much of
letters and phone calls and small, silly presents
every so often - just to save it from
drying out completely.
*Pam Brown*