What Are Friends Are For

Don't you know that the word "friends" has a very complicated meaning? I mean not literally.. Yet,people used that word easily and regularly..When someone ask you, "whose that with you? Easy answer, "its just a friend"..Easy excuse, still "I'm just with a friend..."

There are different types of friendship, such as: friend as co-workers,neighbors,fitness buddy,clientele,schoolmate,mere acquaintance, ect.. and nowadays we have what we called an on line friends as well..
Wherever or whoever it is, life is just wonderful if you are surrounded by those, granted if its a real one..

Friendship to me is like having a flower in the garden, which always need cultivating, must fertilize it, water it, in order to see them grow beautifully..
Its a two soul mate whose mind blend each other, yields natural understanding, forgiving and never back bite. Its both show willingness to lend a helping hand amid the worst and chaos moment of their life..Its a lifelong sharing of laughter and tear experiences, offer golden advices, listen, no demands, not suffocating and never taking advantages.. Its not judge mental, respect each other's ideas and opinion. Its full of honesty,loyalty and trust.

Those words are so powerful, so perfect, that even myself could hardly admit to my own conscience. Am i able to surpassed that one in a million qualities? Hmmmm truth is I don't know.Its just too hard to boast if I am that perfect. I am a person who loves to party and socialized.I'm a bit hard sometimes but so far not choosy. I don't see people according to the thickness of their wallet but how big and thick their heart is.

Every now and then our life changed,such as getting married, change job, went abroad or anything that made us seemed so preoccupied with something that we loose contact with some of our friends. Now,we hanged out new peer group, usually who is nearer and accesible to us.Closer to whom we are comfortable with, the same interest and mostly the same job or area of specialization..But no matter how many you have newly found pals, it actually doesn't mean by, you totally forgotten the old one..Nope!
Nevertheless,without wearing any mask we are conscious of, we have a special face for each of them and since there is nothing so well worth having as friends, never lose a chance to make them.

My Fitness Pals

Fitness pals are usually my own group fitness students and co instructors from which i delevelop a special connection with them. I felt the loyalty and real care from them too. Some of them not here in the list and yet they are still a special part of me, that they only knew...



Phillis on my left, my ever loyal Yoga student..





From left to right is Dolly my ex co instructor, Yuli from Indonesia, Susan and Ann my Filipino Aerobic students..The green jokes group..


Amani in my left and Candy in orange is my fellow Yoga Trainee under Danurasana..Very friendly, quite, reserve type..We are both in bloggers and friendster..



Ricky in long sleeve black, Filipino now in Bharain. Ex co instructor, very kind person fun to be with. We keep in touch in friendster..



Jerry school teacher, in white, is been with me for 4years, now she live in Austrilia with her family..Very nice to chat with..



Dk. Maryani in my right, my very regular aerobic student. We chat a lot too..


Maeve in gray and Kathy in red is my two Europian Yoga Student.. They both teacher in Brunie school. They have been with me for a year..They become friend in the long run and so comfortable with each other..


Standing behind is Ate Jo Filipina,my first closest client in Brunei, not active anymore but still keep in touch. Behind me is Aisha first co instructor in Brunei, we separate ways too yet still friends..


Dk. Norshia in Red center. She's with me for ages..She's like my auntie in Brunei..But i still have keep my self behave with her hehe..



From my right,standing is Hjh Siti Zainidah and Siti Zafira the mother and daughter, they are my other malay Filipina aerobic clients. Sitting is Alida, Rahema and Sharina, malays. They are fun easy to talk to..


Ate Becca in pink. She's one of my closest follower, who just loves to invite me for food and a bit of chat..



My oldest fitness partners in Philippines, i lost contact with some of them now. Really enjoy with them. Miss it!

A friendship can weather most things and
thrive in thin soil; but it needs a little much of
letters and phone calls and small, silly presents
every so often - just to save it from
drying out completely.
*Pam Brown*

The Beaver Group

This is the most common faces in Beaver. I called them Beaver because majority of them usually work and used to work in Beaver company...Its an industrial company, some of them are engineers, marketing staff, accountant, driver, and construction workers..This is the Pilipino "WARAK"(Wildest and naughtiest) walang pikunan group..With them i can shout and be rude, and yet they don't actually care, i think because almost all of them are guys, which i felt spoiled,special,and sure enough that they won't feel bad on my doings. Everything in the group is purely and mostly for fun fun and nothing else but fun.. We don't actually bring any topics about serious problems in life and no secret confessions..We just eat,drink,dance,sing, tease each other and laugh...

Sitting behind me is Cocoy..Ang pinaka alaskador, kita mo? mukha palang ehh..


Introducing Ate Che on the left (ang naiiba very wholesome yan) wife of naughty Orlan. Ann in the center, she's the newest member of the group..She passed the quality dahil shes super alaskadora din..(Puro mga accountant yan)

From left is cha cha and monet in black..Monet is one of the oldest member who come and go in the parties, very bz girl.Cha cha is her buddy too and the new hot babe..

That's Glen Calma the tallest ang pinaka maldito sa grupo..Hate him..pero takot sa akin yan..Yung naka itim si Richard ang may pinaka magandang sasakyan big time hehehe...

Thats Botchoy, asawa ni Ate Amy, mukha palang ehh grabe mang asar yan, pero Engineer yan..

Yung naka sombrero in brown shirt si guapitong Orlan,pinaka cool takot palagi sa Misis hehehe...alaskador din. Yung inakbayan nya si Omboy ang mahilig matulog sa sahig pagnalasing..



Si Tonek wala na sa Brunei yan, twice na yan nag for good hehe..Pinak ka Joker sa lahat lahat..sana babalik ka nek..


Jenny and Daniel family, tahimik lang yan, on and off visitors...pero di pikon yung mga yun..

Si pareng Zaldy. Ang expert sa ibat ibang nakkatawang Phil. lengwahe..Frrigeder sa Lameg daw ang aircon..hahaha..


Si Jun nasa Dubai na yan. Hayop sumayaw at Scientist sa Grupo..




Walang ibang naka stripe dyan na puti, si Ramon ang nag da diet sa grupo dahil na high blood hehehe..



Si mel naka pink, hayop kumanta, japayuki nung 1950's.


Si mareng helen, sobrang seryuso,pero di ka aatrasan nyan..


at the right corner, sitting in white shirt is Kenneth ang pinaka madaldal, wlang humpay..


Si June in Yellow shirt, pa simple lang, pitong pusa inaalagaan nyan..

Some of them not in the list takot sa Camera hehehe..I feel blessed to have them too, they color me rainbow....

Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo,
but what you want is someone who will take
the bus with you when the limo breaks down.
*Oprah Winfrey*

Hot Babes and Cool Dudes

Hot babes and cool dudes are my other group of girl and boy friends who may look not good to you but they are indeed hot to me!! They are the usual out going individuals whom i met mostly in the parties, picnics,and other gimmicks.. Majority of them are like me an overseas workers who simply just enjoying the time while they are free from work...We don't really talk a lot or contact each other, but once we are in the party, it seems that we know each other since the day we are born.

Here are the top list:


Behind me is Karen and in front,is Cheche aside from being my gimmick pals they my kababayan too. They are daring and bold buddies who always luv fun too.


The far end in left corner is Chervie my other kababayan in Cebu..


Far end left Leah..she used to hang out and sleep over with our staff house.


That's Francis, coolest guy i ever met. He is my first closest Pilipino, gimmicks pals in Brunie..


Alen, in my left my cousin's wife..


From left standing behind is Cherry,Cheryl,Loi, and Leizel new found friend in Delima area..


Behind me in Blue shirt is Tifanny, far end in stripe is guapito kobey..


The very center in Red is Elmer nasa Pinas nayan..Ang pinaka mabait na gimik pal ko. In his left in green is Carlo,the look alike Phil. artist Bong Navarro..


Behind me is Ate Fe my other kababayan, thats Mary in front of me..Guys behind are other dance instructors..


Lady in Red sleeveless is Loren with the rest of her extended friends..


Center in long dress is ate glo, sitting nearest to her is grace.Far end left in Red is Susan. This are all my neighbors in Angerek Desa..


Far end right in mini skirt is Rebecca and in my right is kababayan Rose..


Far end left in red is Emma, with the rest of her gang..


Far end right in white Pau clinging to her chinese boyfriend..Former runner up in Miss Overseas Worker..


Miles Center my new hair dresser(Suki ko yan)


In my left is Kabayan lee, with his group of friends..


from the far end guys, is Aris, Gin, Jojo, Edie and William. Far end girls, is Jennifer, natty, and Aisha..They used to be my co-dancers too..


And finally, Clint in red my only cousin in Brunei with his chinese friend far end left..

Some of them are not featured they might one of the long lost loving friends that i have, but their memories will never been forgotten, they will always in my heart, never tarnish nor fade..

An insincere and evil friend
is more to be feared than a wild beast,
A wild beast may wound your body,
but an evil friend will wound your
mind..

*Buddha*

Boss Orlan's Birthday

Pose daw ng maayos nag ka gulo pa...





Kala mo kung anu ang pinag me meetingan...




Salamat boss nalasing mo na naman kame...
Sa uulitin...God bless, more health, more wealth..

Friendship needs no words - it is solitude
delivered from the anguish
of loneliness.
*Dag Hammarskjold*